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We are careful in our selection of women. We only put ladies on our site that are sincere in their search for an international gentleman. We work slow and cautiously. We are not a warehouse of brides or a used Russian girl lot! Please bookmark us and return every week, you might find the woman of your dreams!
I see some very beautiful ladies on your site. Of course, they have hundreds of men writing them. Right?
You might be surprised by this. Our younger and more 'model' like ladies receive the fewest attention and many receive zero letters. I encourage you to write and not treat them like they are spoiled or will not accept you. The majority of our ladies consider appearance secondary. I won my wife's heart not from looks. I am 12 years my wife's senior and a grandfather! I won her with love and attention. I sent her letters frequently. I presented her flowers and gifts often. My wife knew and felt my seriousness. I was the only one that did these things and she did receive a hundred letters at one point!
Why can't she write to me everyday?
Gentlemen, if you had any idea what the typical Russian lady has to do... Okay, let's try. Her day begins very early, especially, if she has children. She will prepare a healthy breakfast for all (sorry, no toaster pastries or 'instant' breakfast would she dare give a child!) She will dress and prepare her appearance as if it were a very special ocassion today. She will walk to the bus stop and wait in what ever weather for sometimes 20 minutes. She will take her children to school and then get herself to work. She will work and work hard for many hours. When she finishes, maybe at 7 P.M., she will walk to the bus stop, waiting another 20 minutes. On the way home, she will probably stop at her grandmother's home to take the children. Now they will go grocery shopping for fresh food for the day's supper. This woman, after maybe 14 hours, will lug, possibly, up to four bags of heavy groceries to her flat. She will put on her home clothes and prepare supper. While the food cooks, she will help her children with school work and possibly do some laundry. If she's lucky, she has a machine. Most likely she does not. So, its off to the bath tub to do it by hand. They will eat at around 10 P.M. and she will get her children off to bed and return to wash the dishes. Her boss might call her at home, interrupting, several times, (yes, this late at night!) already thinking of work to be done in the morning. Your lady will be lucky if it's before midnight. Completely drained and having little power, this lady will try to have a moment to herself to relax before bed.
So where did you fit in? If she could convince her grandmother to hold the children an extra hour it was right after work. She came to our workplace in the evening. She sat here and patiently wrote you a letter from her heart. Of course, when she returns home and we stitch the day back together, it will be well past midnight, maybe 1 or 2 A.M. But she considers it was worth it, as maybe, just MAYBE, you will understand her. Before you say, "Yeah, right." This is EXACTLY what my wife did for the three years we corresponded. I felt extremely guilty for my ocassional whining about slow letters!
What if she asks me for money?
Before you cry, "SCAMMER!" ask yourself some common sense questions. What is she asking for? How much is she asking for? How long have I known her? If I had this lady as my girlfriend in my hometown for this long, would I do this for her? It is possible, not probable, a lady might ask for something small after you've know each other for some time. It does not necessarily mean she is trying to scam you. There were a few occasions, when I was corresponding, my wife asked for a little financial assistance. A Russian woman considers her man, if serious, is generous with her. A generous man has no problem giving his lady a few dollars to help her from time to time. If you feel your lady has presented you an improper request, please let us know. We will investigate the situation if there is suspicion of wrongful doing. Should we discover her behaviour was inappropriate, her membership to our club will be suspended and possibly terminated.
How many ladies should I write?
This is, really, a personal choice. At times, I, personally, wrote to many and other moments only to my eventual wife. I can only say, when in doubt, a backup plan is comforting. Thankfully, I never needed to use mine!
Do ladies pay dues to join your club?
No. Our ladies do not pay any membership fee or annual dues. Membership is without cost. They only pay money if they wish to have current professional photos made for their profile. However, if a lady's man refuses to pay for correspondence, the lady is charged to send and receive letters. We can not work for free.
What about free sites?
There is no such thing as a free site! Ask yourself these questions: Do they know their ladies? Are they even LADIES? Do these sites, personally, interview their ladies? Who's translating for you and this lady? What is their customer service like? How do these sites earn revenue? What do they do with your e-mail and other personal information? YOU GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR. If you are serious, want both customer care & quality, do business with a service that works for you and your lady. Work with a service that has an understanding of this process. If you are only PLAYING GAMES, then, yes, FREE SITES ARE FOR YOU!
Why can't I buy a ladies contact information?
Our ladies are not comfortable having their personal information sold or given away. Some have received undesirable calls at all hours of the night and others put on spam lists. We consider this private information. Further, what works for them works for you. We do not give ladies your personal information either. Our policy is, we would rather the both of you share this information after a personal face-to-face encounter. What is done between two mutually consenting adults is their concern.
Do you accept Western Union®?
No. We can not afford to wait in a bank queue for hours (not minutes like they advertise) every day. We ran a pilot program and spent half our day (yes, really) waiting, filling out forms, answering their numerous questions, and, finally, collecting money. This is time not spent for our ladies or you! Western Union® is a method to send emergency cash to your friend-in-need, but it's no way to conduct efficient business. We accept almost all forms of major credit and debit cards via our shopping cart or, if you are physically here, cash (in rubles)!
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